Candy!!!

I know that being openly gay as a singer may cause some controversy in your life? But so what? I used to have a self-denying bisexual friend who told me in a serious way, "What are you going to do when you become a singer, and people treat you differently because you're gay!"

The truth was, she didn’t' want me to succeed in accomplishing my dreams. Also she's ashamed of being bi! She wants to make other bi and gay people miserable because she hates herself. We're not friends now because she is jealous that I had a man who loved me while her girlfriend dumped her. There is A LOT more to that story, then what I am writing.

I know that as a singer I MAY get some bad feedback for being gay, but is it worth it? YES!!! It's worth fighting for my right at a gay person to be happy as a singer in the music business! How can you be happy if you don’t' follow your heart and fight for who you are?!!! My ex-friend, who I will call Trina, doesn’t. My encouragement towards her has been a waste, since she is so ashamed of being who she is! It's sad, she lives a miserable life with her husband, where she fakes being happy! Whether it's by denial or utter naivety, people believe she is happy with her husband.